Engagement Ring Buying Guide

A guide to choosing the ring that will tell your love story for generations.

An engagement ring is one of life's most meaningful purchases. It represents commitment, celebration, and the beginning of a new chapter together. At Appleby Jewellers, we believe choosing the right ring should be a relaxed, memorable and truly special experience.

Understanding the Diamond: The 4Cs

When selecting a diamond, jewellers evaluate quality using the Four Cs: Cut, Colour, Clarity and Carat weight. These characteristics are the internationally recognised standard for assessing diamond beauty and value.

Cut

Cut is the most important factor in a diamond's brilliance. A well-cut diamond reflects light beautifully, creating the sparkle that makes diamonds so captivating.

Colour

Diamond colour measures how colourless a stone appears. The most prized diamonds are colourless, allowing light to pass through with maximum brilliance.

Clarity

Clarity refers to the natural characteristics inside a diamond. Most inclusions are invisible without magnification, meaning many diamonds appear perfectly clear.

Carat

Carat weight measures the size of the diamond. Choosing the right carat weight is about balance, selecting a diamond that feels perfect for you.

Choosing Your Diamond Shape

The shape of a diamond defines the overall character of an engagement ring. Your choice of shape often reflects personal style — whether timeless, contemporary or vintage inspired.

The "Amity" with  Cushion Cut Yellow Diamond - Appleby Jewellers Dublin

Cushion Cut

Romantic and soft, with vintage charm.

Pear Wave Diamond Ring - Appleby Jewellers Dublin

Pear Shape

Distinctive and graceful, combining brilliance with a unique silhouette.

Marquise Peitho Ring (1.71ct) - Appleby Jewellers Dublin

Marquise

Elongated and regal, creating the illusion of greater size and elegance.

Diamond ring with a central square-cut diamond and smaller round diamonds on a white background

Princess Cut

Modern and brilliant, featuring sharp corners and exceptional sparkle.

Criss-cut diamond solitaire ring from Appleby Jewellers Dublin featuring a sparkling diamond set on a sleek band.

Criss-Cut

Unique step-cut faceting that creates a distinctive hall-of-mirrors effect.

Elegant diamond ring with a cushion cut diamond, featuring a sparkling, radiant design from Appleby Jewellers Dublin.

Radiant Cut

Combines the elegance of emerald cut with the brilliance of round diamonds.

Selecting the Perfect Setting

The setting determines how the diamond sits within the ring and plays a major role in the overall aesthetic.

Elegant diamond solitaire ring with 0.81ct diamond set in a sleek band, crafted by Appleby Jewellers Dublin.

Solitaire

A single diamond that allows the stone to take centre stage. Elegant, timeless and endlessly popular.

Trilogy

Three diamonds representing the past, present and future of your relationship.

Halo

A circle of smaller diamonds surrounding the centre stone, enhancing sparkle and presence.

Vintage & Art Deco

Intricate detailing inspired by historic jewellery design.

Choosing the Right Metal

The metal you choose will influence the overall look and durability of your ring.

Elegant diamond Trinity ring by Appleby Jewellers Dublin featuring interlinked bands and sparkling gemstones.

18ct Yellow Gold

Warm, timeless and beautifully traditional.

The "Glamorous" Trilogy, Platinum - Appleby Jewellers Dublin

Platinum

Naturally white, durable and perfect for showcasing diamonds.

The Rose - Four Stone Diamond Ring - Appleby Jewellers Dublin

18ct Rose Gold

Romantic and distinctive with a soft blush tone.

Certification & Trust

At Appleby Jewellers, trust is the foundation of everything we do. An engagement ring is one of the most meaningful purchases you will ever make. It should come with complete peace of mind, not only in how it looks today, but in the knowledge behind it. With certified natural diamonds, responsible sourcing, and over 70 years of trusted craftsmanship, you can be certain that your ring carries not just beauty, but integrity.

Understanding your diamond


Every diamond we offer is carefully selected and independently certified, by globally recognised Gemological Institute of America. This certification provides an objective assessment of your diamond’s key characteristics, cut, colour, clarity, and carat weight — ensuring complete transparency in what you are choosing.

Sourced with care

Beyond certification, every diamond is sourced responsibly by Nick and Gerry Appleby who adhere to strict ethical standards. We work only with partners who share our commitment to transparency, this is a standard we will never compromise on.

Choosing a Ring That Feels Right

Choosing an engagement ring is not simply about style or specification, it is about recognising something that feels quietly, unmistakably yours.

At Appleby Jewellers, we often say that the right ring is not chosen in a moment of pressure, but discovered in a moment of certainty. It is the one you return to without thinking. The one that lingers.

There is a natural instinct people have when they find the right ring. It is not always the largest diamond or the most intricate setting, often, it is the piece that feels balanced, effortless, and deeply personal. Whether that is a classic solitaire, a romantic halo, or a meaningful trilogy design, the right ring will feel like an extension of your story rather than a statement you are trying to make.

Let your eye lead you


You may arrive thinking you know exactly what you want, or with no idea at all. Both are perfect places to begin. As you explore different shapes, settings, and metals, pay attention to what draws you back. An oval diamond might feel soft and elegant, while an emerald cut offers quiet strength and clarity. A yellow gold band can feel warm and timeless; platinum, cool and enduring.

There is no right answer beyond what resonates with you.

Crafted to be lived with

An engagement ring is something you will wear every day. It should feel comfortable, natural on your hand, and reflective of your lifestyle, not just the moment of proposal. At Appleby, each ring is handcrafted in our Dublin workshop, designed not only to be beautiful, but to become part of your everyday life.

Trust the moment it clicks

There is always a moment, sometimes subtle, sometimes immediate, when a ring simply feels right. It is not about logic. It is about recognition. That is the ring worth choosing.

The Appleby Experience

From the moment you step through our doors, the experience is designed to feel personal and considered. There is no rush, no pressure, it is a very warm and enjoyable experience with the best guidance for your personal style and budget.

A personal, guided approach


Every appointment at Appleby is one-to-one. You are welcomed into a calm, private setting where you can explore our collection at your own pace. Whether you arrive with a clear vision or are just beginning, our team will guide you with honesty and expertisee, helping you understand diamonds, settings, and design without overwhelming you.

We listen first. What you are drawn to, what your budget is, what style you love, what feels like you — this is always where we begin.

Craftsmanship you can see and feel

What sets the Appleby experience apart is its connection to craft. Our rings are handmade in our Dublin workshop by master goldsmiths, some of whom have been with us for decades, often it is the same hands that make your engagement and wedding rings.

You are not simply choosing a ring; you are choosing how it is made, and the care that goes into every detail.

A moment to remember


For many, this is a once-in-a-lifetime decision. We believe it should feel special, not just in the ring itself, but in the experience of choosing it.

There is a quiet excitement in the room when someone finds their ring.

That is the Appleby experience.

THE DIAMOND BUYING GUIDE

A guide to understanding diamonds.

The Four C's Explained

The First C

Cut

The cut of a diamond is the most critical factor in determining its brilliance. It is not merely about shape, but about precision, the angles, proportions, and symmetry that allow light to dance within the stone and return to the eye as fire and sparkle.

At Appleby, we select only diamonds with exceptional cut grades, ensuring that each stone achieves its maximum potential for light performance. A perfectly cut diamond transforms light into beauty, creating the mesmerising brilliance that defines true luxury.

The Second C

Colour

The finest white diamonds are those that appear colourless, allowing light to pass through unimpeded and return as pure, brilliant white light. The colour grading scale ranges from D (colourless) to Z (light yellow or brown), with only the rarest stones achieving the coveted D, E, and F grades.

Appleby prioritises diamonds within the colourless to near-colourless range, ensuring exceptional purity and luminosity. Each diamond is carefully evaluated and chosen by our gemologists to guarantee that only stones of the highest colour quality enter our collection.

The Third C

Clarity

Clarity refers to the presence of natural characteristics within a diamond, known as inclusions, and surface imperfections, called blemishes. These are nature's fingerprints, formed over millions of years deep within the earth.

Choosing a stone that’s eye-clean rather than flawless is smart. It’s about how it looks on your hand, not under a microscope. Most tiny inclusions aren’t visible without magnification. VS2, SI1 and SI2 are usually eye-clean in real life. Avoid paying premium for flawless unless you love perfection under magnification. At Appleby, we select diamonds that ensure brilliance is never compromised, allowing each stone to radiate with unobstructed light and beauty.

The Fourth C

Carat

Carat refers to the weight of a diamond, not its size.

Carat weight measures a diamond's size, with one carat equal to 200 milligrams. While carat weight is often associated with value, true luxury lies in the balance between size and the other three Cs.

A larger diamond is not necessarily more beautiful. At Appleby, we believe in selecting diamonds where carat weight complements cut, colour, and clarity, creating a harmonious presence that captivates without overwhelming. The result is a diamond of perfect proportion, elegance, and enduring allure.

The Appleby Standard

For 70 years, the Appleby name has been synonymous with uncompromising quality and ethical sourcing. Every diamond in our collection is hand-selected by our experienced gemologists, each possessing decades of expertise and an unwavering commitment to excellence.

We source only natural diamonds that meet our rigorous standards across all four Cs, ensuring that every ring we create is a masterpiece of rarity, beauty, and integrity. When you choose Appleby, you choose a legacy of trust, craftsmanship and integrity.

F.A.Q

When it comes to finding the perfect diamond ring in Dublin, few names carry the trust and heritage of Appleby Jewellers. Established in the 1950s, Appleby remains a family-run Irish jeweller renowned for exceptional craftsmanship, beautiful design, and the warm, personal service that generations of couples have come to love.

Our Grafton Street showroom offers a private, relaxed space to view our engagement and diamond ring collections, all handcrafted in our in-house Dublin workshop by master goldsmiths and gemologists.

Cut has the greatest impact on brilliance, always prioritise cut over carat size.


GIA certification provides independent verification of your diamond’s quality and ensures you know exactly what you’re buying.

Before choosing a diamond, it’s important to understand the 4Cs — Cut, Colour, Clarity and Carat. These determine its beauty, rarity and price. We also recommend buying only GIA certified natural diamonds to ensure authenticity and value.

Shape refers to the outline (round, oval, pear, emerald etc.), while cut refers to how well the facets are proportioned and polished. A perfectly cut diamond, whatever the shape, will sparkle beautifully.

Founded in Dublin in the 1950s, Appleby Jewellers is family-owned with decades of craftsmanship and trust. We hand-select every diamond, offer lifetime cleaning and aftercare, and create every ring in our in-house workshop to the highest standard.

The price depends heavily on the 4 C’s (cut, colour, clarity, carat) . Applebys offer excellent value for money.

The cut, colour, clarity make a huge difference. A 1.00 ct diamond with top colour (D, E) and top clarity (IF, VVS) might cost 5 to 10× more than a 1.00 ct diamond with lower colour (I, J) and clarity (SI) even though they weigh the same.

Round brilliant and oval diamonds remain the most popular shapes. Halo settings, solitaires, and three-stone styles are common.

We always recommend 18ct gold and platinum. Both are precious, durable metals designed to last a lifetime.

Platinum is naturally white and exceptionally strong, hypoallergic and that resists wear and retains its colour without the need for re-plating.

18ct gold and blush rose gold offers a rich, luxurious look with excellent durability. Its higher gold content gives a warm tone and a timeless appeal.

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